life lessons

Secret Lessons I have learnt three decades alive.

Secret lessons.

life lessons
life lessons

 

 

 

 

 

 

  1. It doesn’t really matter, how you grow up, how serious you like to look, how we see ourselves, how others see you. What counts is the luck that nature has folded into you, propelling you towards success.
  2. Starting off well is not a determinant that you would end off well.
  3. There is a power in what we say and sometimes the directions of our thought.
  4. Taking life too serious stress and break you.
  5. Sometimes we grow up hating or criticizing our parents but for some unexplainable phenomenon, we end up becoming just like them.
  6. Our hearts can do so many things; like strongly loving someone who doesn’t even know we exist.
  7. Avoid doing evil to anyone, not because you are too nice or a weakling, but because it serves as a rite of passage into a less complicated life. Repercussion waits in your path to ruin you as much as the person you have ruined.
  8. If nature is against you, you start hating the most beautiful people God has paced in your life and then you start loving those who can’t wait to see you suffer.
  9. Bad parents can sire a very well-behaved child. Miraculously God sent some children into this world who naturally need less guidance.
  10. For whatever reasons, our paths always seem to cross with the same people whom we try so hard to avoid.
  11. Secrets, lies and deceit ruins any good relationship. You simply can never be careful enough not to get caught.
  12. Your life might keep opening up bad chapters but being strong and resilient soars the good, successful pages unexpectedly up, so never, ever give up on yourself.
  13. Never be a sticker to ‘first impression matters’, because sometimes the people God sent to stay for good in our lives actually turn-up in an awkward first meeting.
  14. At one time in our lives, you will meet someone who would hate you, even when you have given them so much. They would take everything from you if you let them- but they will still hate you. And you can get to see through this type of people when you learn not to judge a book by its cover.
  15. If you keep cheating on a partner, just because you feel you possess the powers to cheat and still get away with doing so, then you are trying to ruin yourself as well. Because nothing angers nature more than you destroying the weaker vessel, you have been chosen to protect and build.
  16. There is always someone who completes and understand us, however the type of characteristics we possess.
  17. Learn to take care of yourself. Self-care is a necessity. When you look after yourself, you feel good and cheerful and only then will you be able to take care of someone else.
  18. Stop trying to chase respect haughtily from people. Just learn to embrace inner disciplined, then respect will come to you naturally and stay.
  19. Don’t continue being a ‘yes’ person. Say no when you need to. Bring out the real you even when it is too late-even when people will hate you for it. Time changes us, mold us.
  20. Stay away from matters that do not concern you. You will live longer.

These are the secrets lessons I have learnt clocking almost three decades. My question is; what are your secret lessons clocking; two, three, four, five, six decades alive? Do share as we would be glad to learn from you too by using the comment session below.

With love and kisses,

KBH.

 

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Kuburat Tokurah Aperua

I'm a well crafted freelance writer, editor, online business coach and web designer. I am also a Microbiologist by education. I take health matters very seriously, a die-hard fan of self care improvements! I believe we become the best version of whomever we choose to become, when we learn to love and take care of our body. Stay with me and let's build our body together!

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